As per usual, spring is making a slower start than I would like, but while we've been waiting for the weather to heat up and for some color to return to the world, I've been working on putting together the kids' summer wardrobes. This didn't used to be such a chore for me. I'd go to a consignment sale or two, hit up a good Carter's sale, and call it a day. What did used to be an overwhelming chore for me was laundry. Laundry and somehow keeping everybody's clothes contained in their designated dressers and closets. I constantly felt like I was absolutely drowning in kids clothes, yet putting together outfits for them was still a headache because they'd have this one pair of shorts that only matched with one or two shirts and maybe one of those shirts were dirty (or somewhere at the bottom of Mount Laundry). A couple years ago, fed up with shoving clothes into drawers and stacking yet another bin stuffed full of off season clothes in just one size and gender in the basement, I decided to drastically minimize the kids clothes.
And then my life changed. I am not even kidding.
I realized if I concentrated on buying neutral bottoms and mostly basic tops in solids or stripes, I could get away with a lot less clothing for all of them. When I switched to one load of laundry every day, having less clothes got even easier (and Mount Laundry was conquered once and for all, never to make an appearance again) This meant shopping for new clothes was a lot more difficult that filling up a huge bag at the consignment sale, but it was well worth the challenge.
When I first started, I wasn't super intentional. No specific lists or numbers, I just focused on neutrals and solids and not overbuying. It worked for the most part, but I still ended up with some holes that needed filling here and there. Now I go into each season with a list. Before making my list, I pull out bins (all drastically purged so that each now fit several sizes in both genders for one season) from last year to find what might still fits. Once I know what can be worn again for a second year, and what size each kid will be moving into, I can make my lists. Then, lists always close by, I go to one consignment sale and then fill in with end of winter and early spring sales. I shop more at Old Navy than Carters these days since I feel like their clothes tend to mix and match a little better. I also discovered Primary, a super cool company who makes basic kids clothing in a wide range of solid colors and some stripes. They tend to run a little pricier than my frugal self likes, but they run sales all. the. time.
Sticking to my list, I slowly piece everything together and keep it all in one small bin in the basement. Once it seems everything on my list has been taken care of, I lay it all out to make sure I'm not missing anything important. If we're all good, I wash everything and we're good to go! Laundry is easier, managing where everything is put away is easier (I can easily fit Sam and Kate's non-hanging clothes in one of those plastic 3 drawer bins, Henry and Anna share a 3 drawer dresser with tons of extra space), and dressing them is easier. I try and include a few matching or coordinating pieces for special occasions or for when we go to amusement parks or museums (because it's just easier to keep track of everybody when they're wearing one main color). I also try to make the girls' holiday dresses (for Christmas and Easter) be dressy enough to be special, but neutral enough that they can wear them again several times throughout the season.
These are everybody's summer clothes for this year.
This is the list I worked from for this summer. My winter list was similar, only with a few more tops and bottoms for layering purposes.
Boys-
3-4 pairs casual shorts (including 1 pair khaki shorts)
3-4 pairs athletic shorts
7-10 tshirts (2-3 graphic ts, the rest solids or stripes)
3-4 collared shirts (including something suitable for Easter)
2-3 pairs pjs with shorts
1-2 pairs pjs with pants
1 bathing suit
1 pair sandals (sturdy enough for hiking, decent looking enough for church)
1 pair flip flops
Girls-
2-3 pairs shorts
1 pair white undershorts to wear w/ dresses
5-7 tshirts
7-8 dresses (including something suitable for Easter)
2-3 pairs pjs with shorts AND/OR nightgowns
1-2 pairs pjs with pants
1 bathing suit
1 pair sandals
1 pair flip flops
1 pair white, dressier sandals
To some people's standards, this isn't at all minimal. I could easily pare this down even more, especially since I do laundry every single day. This is what works best for us right now though. The boys are semi-interested in their clothing choices and Kate is very interested in her clothing choices. Anna doesn't care yet. These numbers have struck the right balance between keeping things manageable and giving everybody choices! This also accounts for those crazy days were people are just spilling drinks and rolling in dirt and peeing all over themselves left and right, requiring multiple wardrobe changes before dinner.
Right now everybody is old enough to mostly stay in one size for a whole season. My kids usually move up a size in the spring, so I don't buy multiple sizes for the summer unless a growth spurt sneaks up on us. Sometimes towards the end of winter I need replace some of their pants and long sleeve shirts with the next size up that I then roll into their winter wardrobe for the next year. When I have had a baby who was probably going to change sizes mid-season, I'd just do maybe 1/2 to 3/4 of this list for each size.
I keep underwear, socks, and outerwear to a minimum as well. That all looks something like this for the spring/summer:
Undies- 7 pairs
Socks- 5-7 pairs
Zip-up hoodie- 1
Sweater/cardigan- 1
Sun hat/baseball cap- 1
Sunglasses- 1
Here's everybody's summer wardrobes laid out for those of you who need a visual.
Sam's
Kate's
Henry's
Anna's (Anna ended up with more tshirts than I originally planned because she still sometimes requires a shirt change after lunch)
So does this take planning and work? Yup. Was it easier to just buy a bunch of stuff and wing it. Yup. Is it worth all of the planning and work? YUP x1000000. I've even rolled this over into my own wardrobe, purging a lot of unnecessary items and only keeping neutrals and solids that can mix and match.
I can say with 100% honesty that drastically minimizing my kids' clothing has made a huge, positive impact on my sanity and on our home life. I know it's not for everybody. For some this is still too much clothing, and for others it's far too little. But this is the balance that I've found works best for us and makes our life run as smoothly as possible ❤
